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Damn!!!
I can't believe I am sick again, but I am!
My throat is so sore, it's killing me and I feel as if it's on fire!
What's up with that?
It hurts when I speak, so I cant even talk and I love talking! lol
Plus, I think someone is pounding on my head with a supersized hammer!!!

I'm gonna go make myself some tea and lie down because if my mother sees me like this, she will keep nagging about how lightly I dress at work and that it's too cold outside for me dressing like that!!!

Meh...
I can't even concentrate long enough to keep with my fiction!! I try to but then I have to sneeze or cough!!!

Crossposted at livejournal

 

Howdy everyone! *waves around*

I have been reading through my f-list, activity which I havent done in quite a long while (shame on me), but it makes me partly sad  and partly happy to realize some things.

The thing that made me happy was that even with lots of things happening in your lives guys, you are still the same persons I know and trust and adore and view as friends and  on the other hand the thing that makes me sad is that sometimes even though we are kinda close and intimate, some of us dont feel like we really have someone next to us.
Someone we can really trust and feel free to say anything without being afraid of rejection or anything like that!!!

I just want to say to everyone on my f-list, that honestly there isnt anything that you could tell me about yourselves that could make me like you any less or see or treat you differently.

We are always the same but have different faces for the different people we interact with.
It's not a matter of hypocrisy or anything. But i can totally understand the distinction we make even subconsciounsly!

We can be great friends but louzy sisters. We can be good parents but inadequate employees! and its totally acceptable!!! We cant be perfect at everything but it's our same flaws (and the the urge we have to get rid of them) that constitute our mere essence! This is what makes us human!!!

I know this all sound really good but definately random.
It's not really random.
I just noticed that a person in my f-list is feeling (a)really depressed and (b)that everyone, every other person is looking down at her, always making her feel bad about who she is!!!
She feels like no one will give her any attention and is sick of always being the one to initiate conversation!!

 

I understand that this is very hard and I have been through something similar but I got through it by showing who I really am and trying to attract attention -not in a bad way but i just initiated conversations in the begininning and then people started seeking me out and wanting to discuss with me!

Other people might be afraid too, or timid. Yes, I understand that them being bored or just uninterested is also a possibility but it's in our hands to try and win them over. It will take a while though!!

I suggested that she tries to talk to people about trivial stuff first. Just making polite jokes and remarks as she met someone or something.
Even silly ones like that:
(Quote)
Make sure you are the first to make a comment a pleasant one. Even if it is about the weather. Appear cheerful and funny as much as you can.
If you meet someone for the 5th time in the elevator make a comment like oesnt this elevator make the strangest noises or what? I am glad I am with another person! " and then laugh...Anything to make them see you are joking but then want the to participate in the fun, discussion or whatever!!!
Think of funny ways to initiate conversations!!! (end of quote)

 

What are your thoughts guys? Any other ways to make friends or at least have people start talking to her

 

Wow,it's been a very long time since i last update this.Wow! Since November. That's like a lot. And imagine i had made a promise to myself to really keep writing regularly in this. Anyways.There's many things that have happened in the meantime. Too many to count but maybe not all equally interesting. Or even remotely interesting. Then again this is the blog of a regular girl,not the blog of a superstar!!What did ya expect? lol My brother has ultimately moved to his own house,which i visit quite often! (Can't live without him! )But he is kinda cosy there. I mean i thought that he would be quite sad and lonely but it turns out that he is quite well,actually. He doesn't miss us that much. Maybe the fact that i call him every other day helps! lol I am not working where i was working before either. I am now working in a state committee watching over telecommunications and such wich is cool but God!! you wouldn't believe the bureaucracy there! It's...yikes! It gives you a headache. And actually i was thinking that it would be easier work,with less stress and stuff but it turned out to be quite stressful!But i like it! It's much better than the previous one. But it is so much further. It takes me one hour and a half to get there in the mornings and the same amount of time to get to my house afterwards.That sucks but at least i don't work in the evenings. It's just 9-5. So what else is new? Oh, my best friend broke up ...again. Which sucks...men suck sometimes...but other times they really suck! lol Well that's all for now! Take care all ~Kelly~

 

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~Kelly~